Long Time No See

0. "A Group of Slackers"

Going from being positive and motivated to being a "slacker" is not about running away. For me, it’s a free space of consciousness, full of sunlight and life, where hope is not far away.

This world won’t pause for your sadness or happiness, not even for a second. People will disappear, but consciousness lasts forever.

1. "Detachment"

Since I chose a work rhythm that I can’t change for now, I often feel lost in time. On Sunday mornings, I scroll through social media and see others’ exciting lives—it’s like a moment of returning to reality.

The wind blows, and outside the window, the kapok flowers are different every day. Not long ago, they were in full bloom, but after some rain and wind, they’ve fallen. There’s also that road I pass by, and at a certain time, the golden trumpet trees shine brightly.
In the evening, the kid next door starts practicing drums. The rhythm feels like stepping into potholes on a bumpy road. Sometimes, when I’m annoyed, I wish they had a soundproof room. But most of the time, I’m touched by their youthful energy. Even after sunset, I can still catch a bit of light.

2. "The Courage to Be Disliked"

What determines us is not “the experience itself,” but “the meaning we give to the experience.” — Adler

Before learning about Adler, I thought everything in life was caused by Freud’s theories. Recently, many people recommended this book, so I started reading it seriously. Adler’s ideas about purpose often convince me. Maybe it’s a way to breathe in modern society.

Reading it, even if it’s hard to master life’s lessons, maybe I’ll feel a little less anxious and troubled. As time keeps moving forward, it’s hard to always like people who are full of energy and positivity every day. Maybe I just use “slacking off” as an excuse for myself. While reflecting, I sometimes feel like I’m meeting another version of myself.

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❤️ Translated by Claude

👉 Original: [好久不见]